I logged into the game tonight to find one of my best friends in tears. Why you ask? Well im going to tell you....
They were doing a zone, muspel, ppl got spanked, they were cr group.. Aparently have been there for quite a while...
there is one naked ghealer and one cleric for healers, thats it... first big fight..bout 10 mobs 5 or so are casters cleric being smart keeps the essential ppl alive.. tanks enchanter etc, squid and few others die... upon reentering the game the squid (mind you only the squid) begins spamming the cleric with tells about how he didnt nget a vit and it was her fault he died.....
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next big fight, squid spams cleric for fheals, cleric fheals him.. cleric tells squid something to the affect there is only one of her and to be patient... squid tells cleric that she doesnt grp/vit/heal him on purpose and that he has been watching her adn she doesnt do her job....
now by this time had it been me the group would have been at a standstill and me and the squid would have been havin it out right there in front of god and everybody, but its nto me, and the cleric holds her tongue so that the cr group can keep going and get done...
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lizard in room, squid dies again, so does cleric among others
squid tells cleric how much she sucks and how bad of a cleric she is, she tells squid she died too and squid tells cleric 'good, she deserved it' and proceeds to tell cleric how she needs to set herself up as a bot with triggers so that she can heal him when he sends her a tell, of course cleric refuses .. duh
Cleric goes on to tell squid that there is one of her and 14 of them, she heals the tanks and what is necessary to keep the group, if not all most of, intact. The squid continues to spam the cleric with tells about how useless she is.. Then the squid throws a tissy fit and logs off when the leader tells the group to cut the shit so they get stuff done...
im posting this cuz i want you all to remember that there are people sitting behind those monitors out there playing this game... They have feelings.. and well you tell them they are useless peices of shit, ESPECIALLY when they are doing their best in a bad situation that chances are they are going to become upset .. i'll save the 'this is a game and you should be able to cut off all feelings' speech because it simply doesnt apply to 98% of the mudders who play here.
so the next time b4 you open your fat ass mouth to tell somebody how much of a shit bag they are and how bad they are doing their job, remember they are a person.. look at the situation and see if they doing a bad job or its just a bad situation... 9.9 chances outta 10 its just a bad situation and you have no right to say anything..
to the cleric, you did right by letting it go and nod holding up the group... You did your job and you did it well (cuz i asked what happened from other pplz)
btw this is all what i was told from several ppl in the group... nothing is quoted and therefore i named no names...
to the squid... you messed up this time buddy, sometimes things are just 2 harsh to take back...

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Baikalisan Terrorforge- Valsharess Elg'Caress - Orbdrin D'oloth
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